And while AJ was "distracted" with his new big boy room, we made the decision to ditch his nasty habit too. It was time to say goodbye to "the sucker". That pacifier was (and still is) the bane of my existence. It has controlled our lives from the moment AJ learned of its sweet soothing delight. But I couldn't stand when AJ would talk to me with it hanging out the corner of his mouth. Or that he DEMANDED it as soon as he walked through the door from school (even though he knew he was only allowed to have it at bed time.) So, we made a big deal of becoming a big boy...that big boys don't use suckers, and we would get him a "big boy bear" that he could make all by himself.
On the day we decided to go to Build-a-Bear, AJ and I had a very special day together at the mall. We arrived early and got to play on the choo-choo train. AJ made sure to sit in EVERY car of the train and on every seat. We played on all of the "rides" and jumped, climbed, and slid at the indoor playground.
Finally it was time to say goodbye to his old friend and make a new one. AJ picked out a floppy stuffie from the bins. We brought it over to the stuffing machine, where we brought his friend to life! Before stitching him up, AJ put both of his suckers inside, along with a heart and a special wish. He kissed the heart, tucked it inside, and his Monkey sprung to life! We brushed him togehter, picked out big boy underwear and clothes for his new friend, and gave him a name. AJ has appropriately named his friend "Monkey". AJ was VERY proud of his new friend. He didn't seem to mind at all that his suckers were tucked inside...
....Until later that night when he HURLED Monkey at me, shook him by the tail and demanded that I "Get [his] sucker!" He told me "Rip it...out. RIP. IT. OUTTTTT!!!" It's a work in progress. But...we've made it one whole week without the suckers. Let's hope the reality that it's not coming back sets in soon.
| Even Robert digs Monkey ;) |
| Our Handsome Big Boy! |